One more reason to write (even if you're not a writer)

*For those who read my last post on how Phil and I met, please click here to revisit it. I've added a visual of his hair that you won't want to miss as well as a hilarious Moo quote!

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Even though I have the worst memory in the history of the universe, I still think "I'll remember this moment. It's so meaningful/funny/sad/important that I don't really need to write it all down." BUT I DO, Y'ALL. Case in point:

This past weekend, I went to my parents' house. They're doing some mid-life-crisis deep cleaning and have made it all the way to the deep freezer and the attic. You know they're serious if they tackle the scary places. While most of my childhood keepsakes are sitting snug in a basement Rubbermaid at my house, they had a new stack of things for me to look through--a few buckets of clothes I wore as a child and large manilla envelopes from kindergarten to 7th grade with my school work best in them.

You think you know your past selves, those people at various stages of your life who were you but who aren't you now. And then you look back at what you wrote and said at age seven and you think THAT was me? Really? I wasn't like that, was I? Man, I'm glad my teachers made me write a lot in elementary school. (Hear that, teachers? Keep making kids write...a lot.) I learned a few things about myself from thumbing through those old stories and "All About Me" pages and composition notebooks:

• I liked to watch TV. Over and over again, I talked about how I looked forward to when I could "just relax and watch TV." Funny, though, because I almost never watch any now and don't remember watching much as a child. 
• I had a reason for wanting to relax. I worked really really hard. I practiced piano every day for 30 minutes BEFORE school. I made all A's. I played sports and babysat my brothers and did family chores. It wasn't slave driving or overly strict parenting; I just had a really strong work ethic and high expectations from home. 
• I loved alone time. No surprise here, but I repeatedly wrote about how my room was my favorite place in the house because it was quiet. I can't blame me. 
• I also loved to sleep, apparently. Which is funny because I remember always struggling to fall asleep and still have one or two nights of crappy sleep each week. 
• My brothers "aggravated" me regularly. Again, no real surprise there. Only girl with three younger brothers? Yeah, let's just say I was familiar with face farts. 
• I was really spiritual. I wrote all the time about God and my faith and scripture and I really meant every word. I still do. 
• I liked math and I hated English. At least in first grade. I liked math because "I liked to learn new things," and I hated English "because I have to write a lot and my hand gets all sweaty." Fair. 
• I was creative and artsy. I'd draw in my journal and cut out magazine pictures and make up blurbs the people were saying. I'd make twenty different thumbprint stick people, all looking better than I could possibly create now. I wrote down quotes I liked and crafted outlandish stories. I took risks and didn't care because there weren't any stakes. Of course, I also had a crazy amount of free time as a child, so my imagination wasn't suffocated by real life bills/laundry/decisions. Even so, I wish I had a little more of that risky/artsy side now. Because, let's face it: I'm pretty much the opposite of risky/artsy.
• I was really close with my family. I wrote often of my parents and brothers and trips we would take and things we would do together, even if it was just family dinner. Some things never change.
• I liked school. And then one day I grew up and became a teacher. :)

I loved every minute of getting reacquainted with myself, triggering memories and people that I thought were lost. Hopefully some of them will show up here in the coming months. Until then, please keep writing. Even if you're not a writer, just write it all down. Because you won't remember, and one day you'll slow down enough to read a few things you jotted down on a tired day in July and you'll think, Really? That was me? That's what I thought and experienced? I had no idea.